Category Archives: Love/Romance


20th Anniversary Playlist

Posted by in :: 52 Love Songs Project,Love/Romance | February 14, 2012

Every anniversary Kara gets a new playlist on (back in the day, kiddies, we called them “mix tapes”) of songs I collect throughout the year that represent how I feel about my baby. I generally try to pick songs based on real committed love and not just cheesy love songs. I load these on CDs and we listen to them throughout our day date on our anniversary as we drive around and then she keeps them in her car to listen to throughout the year as she wants.

Here’s the playlist you can listen to in the background as you do your work today. I would love to hear your recommendations, too. Thanks.

Be sure to follow our 20th Anniversary Year-Long Celebration here.

GrooveShark didn’t have the following songs that are on Kara’s playlist that I highly recommend:

  • Lovesong, Adele (the one above is a cover of her cover of The Cure’s original song)
  • Things We Said Today, The Beatles
  • Gold to Me, Ben Harper
  • Me & You, Michael Reno Harrell

 

Our 20th Anniversary Year-Long Celebration

Posted by in >> Marriage Transformation,Love/Romance | February 13, 2012

You know how business’ celebrate their 10th, 20th, etc anniversary of being in business all year long? Well, marriage and family is more important than any business so Kara and I decided today that we’re going to make our 20th Anniversary a Year-Long Celebration instead of just on our anniversary date itself and stretch it out throughout 2012 with various big and small celebrations, activities and parties. Woo hoo!

What are your favorite anniversary ideas, stories and memories? Please share them with us in the comments below!

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January

January 19th:  My wife Kara’s blog post “20 Years” — A touching and funny tribute of our life together

Yes, it made me cry. Best gift I’ve ever received! Wow! I’m tearing up, folks, sap that I am. What a touching (and funny) review and tribute of our life together. Thanks, baby! BEST anniversary gift I’ve EVER received.

January 30th: Decision to make this a full year-long anniversary celebration.

February

February 12th

February 14th

  • Valentine’s Waffles  for Kara and the kids.
  • Unveiling of this year’s anniversary logo above. This always goes on the back window of her vehicle. This is part of my approach of  Valentine’s All Year and ongoing courtship.  (see past years logos here).
  • Play Day. Our friendship began long before our love affair did. We were friends in college, poor students, who found lots of cheap, creative and fun ways to have fun bumming around campus: Chalk dancing, dirt-clod fights, singing 70′s TV show theme songs, looking at the “pickled people” in the science building and so on. So today we’re just playing. Here’s today’s play agenda:
    • —Go to our children’s schools together and buy candy grams for them.
    • —Go to our alma mater BYU
    • ——Pal around like the good old days and reminisce.
    • ——Enjoy the art at BYU’s Museum of Fine Art
    • ——Get ice cream at the BYU Dairy
    • —Slick track go-cart racing
    • —Shopping
    • —Listening to our 20th Anniversary Playlist (listen here) throughout the day as we drive around.
  • Drove all day with this all over our vehicle “Just Married… 20 years ago today!” Thanks kids!
  • KSL Channel 5 live interview of our 20th Anniversary Year Long Celebration. Woo hoo!
  • Dinner at Franck’s. French cuisine. Our third anniversary there. Kara’s a real foodie, a culinary genius and appreciates fine food like no one I know. She knows what all the fancy words on a menu means that no one else understands. It’s fun to listen to her describe how certain foods are made and the history of certain methods or techniques.

February 18th

  • 20th Anniversary Party. A small party with local family and friends.

March

March 30, 2012: Kara and I went to the “Keeping the Love Alive” Date Night Seminar.
By Michelle  Weiner-Davis, best-selling author of Divorce-Busting, hosted by StrongerMarriage.org
Michelle is one of the key leaders in my field and has greatly influenced the Solution-Focused work I do with my clients. It was great to learn from her again. Kara and I both enjoyed her presentation. And after I introduced Kara to my new fav find: Rusted Sun Pizzeria (num!) with the most amazing calzones and spumoni for dessert.

April

Moab, UT hiking trip

May

Marriage Enrichment Weekend Retreat

June

Park City overnight date

July

WaveRunner Date

August

Horseback riding on the trails of Sundance

September

Marriage Getaway, Aspen Grove, UT. I highly recommend these Marriage and Weekend Getaways. They are affordable, insightful and fun.

October

Alaskan Cruise

November

Las Vegas overnighter

December

Concert in Wendover

What are your favorite anniversary ideas, stories and memories? Please share them with us in the comments below!

20 Years is…

2 Decades

240 Months

1,044 Weeks

7,305 Days

175,316 Hours

10,518,975 Minutes

631,138,519 Seconds

      And counting…

“Lucky” My Eye

And to think some fool said to me that my wife and I were “lucky” to have such a great marriage. Yeah, right. That’s what it is: “luck.” Luck my eye. Our great marriage is time put in, work done, study done, lessons learned, bad habits undone and good habits hard-won. Don’t you dare cheapen my kick-ass marriage by calling what we have CREATED “lucky.” Might as well call Warren Buffet’s wealth luck or Michael Jordan’s skill luck.  But, if you call working your butts off to a commitment and never giving up “luck” then I wish you all the best luck in the world!

Any of my clients who have done The GREAT Relationship Work can also well attest that their accomplishments had nothing to do with luck, but with choice, commitment, and LOTS of hard work. Their turn-arounds and transformations didn’t “just happen” and didn’t come cheap. Their relationships are GREAT because they were EARNED the hard way, the old way, the only way—doing the right work the right way and refusing to cut corners. Excellence only.

Past Anniversaries


 



GR Masters: Kristian and Rachel Anderson

Posted by in >> Marriage Transformation,:: The Great Relationship Masters Project,Love/Romance | February 1, 2012

Not too shabby this… Kristian Anderson made this birthday video for his wife Rachel before he died of cancer. It went viral as did their story. I’ll let the vids tell their story better than I can…

Train Serenades Kristian and Rachel with “Marry Me” & Oprah Covers Medical Costs

Their Wedding Video

Kristian’s Funeral

I tip my hat to this wonderful couple who were in their short time in this life together truly GREAT Relationship Masters. Their reunion in the next life will be all the sweeter for both the joy and the suffering they experienced in this life. Peace and blessing to them.

“Create Your GREAT Relationship Brand” Workshop

Posted by in Love/Romance,Marriage Tips,Seminars and Workshops,The GREAT Relationship | September 23, 2010

“Create Your GREAT Relationship Brand” workshop/fireside this weekend. Hope to see ya there! http://ping.fm/qN59A

“Get a Dog!” by Ben Stein

Posted by in Love/Romance | February 19, 2010

We humans must be trained to develop relationship mastery. While we are the masters of our dogs, they are the masters of actually practicing the highest virtues we only say we hold dear.

Ben Stein, in his classic deadpan humor, nails it:

“No matter what the problem in life dogs are the answer… Did you lose your job? Horrible. But that just means you have more time to spend at home with your dog… Your dog doesn’t need a master with a big job. He needs a friend… Take the first step to recovery right now: Get a dog.”

“When I Said I Do” Clint Black & Lisa Hartman-Black

Posted by in Love/Romance,Marriage Tips | February 29, 2008

Few “romantic” songs have anything to do about real, lasting, committed love. This song epitomizes what The Marriage Academy and “greatness in relationships” is all about. Enjoy.

Peace,
Jonathan